Unless it is an arranged marriage or date? Are they just shy or useless?
Whe you have a culture of arranged marriages for generations, the gene pool that would have been weeded out had they had to go find their dates on their own due to social darwinism, have been artifically been made to survive when nature would have not let them. Thus, compared to men from cultures where arranged marriages are not practiced, on average, they lack the skills due to having successive generations of getting a free ride on the arranged part. It is sort of like asking why sheltered kids are not as streetwise as those who had to earn a living climbing through the ranks through the hard way.
Unless it is an arranged marriage or date? Are they just shy or useless?
Whe you have a culture of arranged marriages for generations, the gene pool that would have been weeded out had they had to go find their dates on their own due to social darwinism, have been artifically been made to survive when nature would have not let them. Thus, compared to men from cultures where arranged marriages are not practiced, on average, they lack the skills due to having successive generations of getting a free ride on the arranged part. It is sort of like asking why sheltered kids are not as streetwise as those who had to earn a living climbing through the ranks through the hard way.
Nah….genetics is not it. Most white populations had arranged marriages until about five or six generations ago. Arranged marriages are a trait of a more traditional society, having nothing to do race or biology.
I am of East Indian descent, but quite western. I have no problem that other men around me don’t have in striking up a friendship with women. The key is to be very nice to the lady. Most of all, be honest and sincere, as bullshit is the biggest poison to a relationship when she starts to see it.
I begin as just friends. Russian violinist Mstislav Ostropovich hit the nail on the head in an interview with TIME Magazine. “A woman is like a violin,” he explained. “You don’t just rip out her strings and growl ‘I LOFF you!’ You need to stroke her gently and say ‘I loooof you!’”
Unless it is an arranged marriage or date? Are they just shy or useless?
Whe you have a culture of arranged marriages for generations, the gene pool that would have been weeded out had they had to go find their dates on their own due to social darwinism, have been artifically been made to survive when nature would have not let them. Thus, compared to men from cultures where arranged marriages are not practiced, on average, they lack the skills due to having successive generations of getting a free ride on the arranged part. It is sort of like asking why sheltered kids are not as streetwise as those who had to earn a living climbing through the ranks through the hard way.
Nah….genetics is not it. Most white populations had arranged marriages until about five or six generations ago. Arranged marriages are a trait of a more traditional society, having nothing to do race or biology.
I am of East Indian descent, but quite western. I have no problem that other men around me don’t have in striking up a friendship with women. The key is to be very nice to the lady. Most of all, be honest and sincere, as bullshit is the biggest poison to a relationship when she starts to see it.
I begin as just friends. Russian violinist Mstislav Ostropovich hit the nail on the head in an interview with TIME Magazine. “A woman is like a violin,” he explained. “You don’t just rip out her strings and growl ‘I LOFF you!’ You need to stroke her gently and say ‘I loooof you!’”
Ahh but is there a problem when you take a group of people used to living in a society of arranged marriages are the norm, therefore, they do not have to court women and have no experience.
is that because of lack of birth control, condoms etc? Why can’t they find mates in North America where it counts? Plus we don’t have arranged marriages like in China and India.
is that because of lack of birth control, condoms etc? Why can’t they find mates in North America where it counts? Plus we don’t have arranged marriages like in China and India.
Like I said, these Asian men often have superior economic advantages over their caucasian counterparts. Why are they unsucessful in dating white women when these Asian men can provide them with economic comfort?
is that because of lack of birth control, condoms etc? Why can’t they find mates in North America where it counts? Plus we don’t have arranged marriages like in China and India.
Like I said, these Asian men often have superior economic advantages over their caucasian counterparts. Why are they unsucessful in dating white women when these Asian men can provide them with economic comfort?
Please post a source for this claim that Asian men have more money than other races. Thanks.
I think there is a percieved notion that chinese men have lots of money because the money they do have they like to flaunt.
I know many chinese people,they like to carry big wads of cash on their person. They will purposely buy the most expensive car,jewlery etc to give the elusion of wealth.
From the chinese I have known over the years, the elusion of wealth is VERY important to them. One guy I knew mortgaged his house to buy 2 rolex watches for him and his wife. LOL I am not kidding!!!
Off course not all chinese are like this but from the ones I have known they are.
Trust me there are many wealthy caucasion in Vancouver. W have many many millionaires. Caucasion people are probaby more likely to invest in the stock market, etc and have the majority of their wealth tied up and not available at a moments call.
I believe people that walk around with a 2 inch bundle of $100 bills in their pocket, desire the reaction of everyday people seeing them pull this kind of money out of their pocket.To me they don’t come across as the most bright type of person. The people I know who are millionaires which are quite a few people , would not want the majority of people to know this for fear of being used also they shop with credit cards to have a better accounting system in place.
UNLESS of course they are criminals like drug dealers, then they would more likely walk around with the bundles in their pockets too!
There are wealthy and Poor people in every race. One should never judge a book by its cover,you may be surprised to see what is inside a ragged looking book!
Look at Gates,in his jeans etc. the more people go out of their way to impress other people,you can almost guarantee they are in dept up to their eyebrows!
Rich people are use to having money and don’t feel the need to flaunt it!
I think there is a percieved notion that chinese men have lots of money because the money they do have they like to flaunt.
I know many chinese people,they like to carry big wads of cash on their person. They will purposely buy the most expensive car,jewlery etc to give the elusion of wealth.
From the chinese I have known over the years, the elusion of wealth is VERY important to them. One guy I knew mortgaged his house to buy 2 rolex watches for him and his wife. LOL I am not kidding!!!
Off course not all chinese are like this but from the ones I have known they are.
Trust me there are many wealthy caucasion in Vancouver. W have many many millionaires. Caucasion people are probaby more likely to invest in the stock market, etc and have the majority of their wealth tied up and not available at a moments call.
I believe people that walk around with a 2 inch bundle of $100 bills in their pocket, desire the reaction of everyday people seeing them pull this kind of money out of their pocket.To me they don’t come across as the most bright type of person. The people I know who are millionaires which are quite a few people , would not want the majority of people to know this for fear of being used also they shop with credit cards to have a better accounting system in place.
UNLESS of course they are criminals like drug dealers, then they would more likely walk around with the bundles in their pockets too!
There are wealthy and Poor people in every race. One should never judge a book by its cover,you may be surprised to see what is inside a ragged looking book!
Look at Gates,in his jeans etc. the more people go out of their way to impress other people,you can almost guarantee they are in dept up to their eyebrows!
Rich people are use to having money and don’t feel the need to flaunt it!
You have some point. In fact, I know someone who has banked $38,000 in two years working for $12.00/hour by eating free food at the Sikh Temple and getting toilet paper at McDonald’s, lining up at the food bank and living like a bum out of his car. He even showered at the Kerrisdale Community center and got free coffee at HSBC Bank. Some people like him are future millionaires who get there by being a cheap ass. All this guy has to do now is mortgage an appartment, and get someone to pay the mortgage on his appartment when the housing market bottoms out.
I guess that is one way to save money! LOL I think the way most people do it is just by not over spending on crap they don’t need.
I also know people who are broke. I am always amazed at how much money someone will spend on crap and then complain about how they cannot make ends meet. I feel like just telling them how stupid they are but cannot because it is not my business or place to.
when I say crap I mean useless dust collecting type of stuff.
I guess that is one way to save money! LOL I think the way most people do it is just by not over spending on crap they don’t need.
I also know people who are broke. I am always amazed at how much money someone will spend on crap and then complain about how they cannot make ends meet. I feel like just telling them how stupid they are but cannot because it is not my business or place to.
when I say crap I mean useless dust collecting type of stuff.
They do buy crap. Also, there is a chinese Starbucks barrista (I think he is a shift supervisor at the Oakridge Branch, making $10.25/hour, and he leased himself a 2005 BMW! Now that is crazy! Another thing is a girl who financed a Acura TL when it was new, and she made $12.00/hour at 37.5 hours a week signing people up for BMO Mastercard. Now spending 35-50% of one’s disposable monthly income on a car payment is actually rediculous. Rent, I can understand even a high percentage like this at the lower income levels, but a car, that is nuts.
Unless it is an arranged marriage or date? Are they just shy or useless?
Ahh but is there a problem when you take a group of people used to living in a society of arranged marriages are the norm, therefore, they do not have to court women and have no experience.
Totally right, but the causes lie in conditioning, not in genes. When I still lived in Trinidad as a teenager, I grew up in a more restrictive society and had problems approaching women. But after having lived in England and America, it is second nature. Just do it respectfully, and if the lady is interested she will be as sweet as ice cream.
Whites consider STD’s to be like a common cold? Chinese men mortgage their homes to buy Rolex watches for him and his wife? East Indian men can’t pick up women?
These are true stories?
Well, Chinese men do need expensive props like Rolex watches and BMW’s because otherwise their women wouldn’t stop laughing at their miniature dicks. And some white girls like Britney Speers have probably had more STD’s than they have had colds. And I would think that it would be hard for an East Indian guy carrying a bucket of gasoline and a bic lighter to pick up a woman.
And I saw a spam email that said I could get a box of 48 Genuine Polex watches for only $199.95- thats a pretty good deal isn’t it?
You have some point. In fact, I know someone who has banked $38,000 in two years working for $12.00/hour by eating free food at the Sikh Temple and getting toilet paper at McDonald’s, lining up at the food bank and living like a bum out of his car. He even showered at the Kerrisdale Community center and got free coffee at HSBC Bank. Some people like him are future millionaires who get there by being a cheap ass. All this guy has to do now is mortgage an appartment, and get someone to pay the mortgage on his appartment when the housing market bottoms out.
I see nothing morally wrong with being el cheapo as long as you don’t exploit others. If he ate free food at the Sikh Temple, but also volunteered labor, then it’s fair trade. During times when money was tight. I bartered services, and in return got various things without needing to spend money.
