hi i am 24 years old male from uk,  i never had a girlfriend, and girls hate me, like they dont look at me, or talk to me, i am bald asian guy, maybe ugly, but i have seen really pretty and fit white girls even asian with really ugly and dirty black guys, why is that girls love black guys so much, and not me, i am not as bad as black guys. i am really sad.

maybe you ought to smile and talk to them. Women rarely make the first move, its usually up to the guy

Most white girls(even the fit ones) are bigger than asian guys

I will tell you why. I have actual academic research on why this is so. According to Emily M. Nett, (1998) Women seek men mates with high economic security and social status. Men, on the other hand, seek women who are physically attractive (Canadian Families, Past and Present). And Marx mentions how economy is the infrastructure of ideology. Then, I must ask you if you are first financially stable? Now we do see many Asian men with Mercedez who are single. White women are dating men who take them on a date going on BC Transit not owning a vehicle. I find this quite obnoxious. While asian women get taken by white men, asian men have difficulty selecting white women. This would mean that when the sex ratio of men are much higher than women, it means that there isnt enough women to go around for men in asia anyways. It now gets toppled by the fact that white men take away asian women, leaving many asian men single.

If you are a canadian citizen, however, you are in luck. You can purchase a mail order bride from Russia, promising Canadian citizenship. But before you sign the contract, ensure that you have the opportunity to impregnante them. Your attractiveness you cannot change, but your income, that you can do something about.


This is where women are stuck from birth where they will be stationed in life, but men, while having to work for it often, can change their situation with money.

You need not feel bad about buying a mail order bride in a system that does not provide you a woman in normal means of mate selection. If you have tried your best, then, it is justified that you take this route after exhausting other options.

Is this a scientific study?
If so, it is quite laughable for me, as I know one couple that fits that to a TEE.   So funny that is works that way.
Personally I could never ever never lower myself to that level, it is so primitive.   There is no blarney way that I will like a person b/c they have money,  it is the person you are dealing with, not the things.
Imagin wasting a life on someone b/c of their belongings, how sick is that?
Or on the other side< wasting a life on someone because of that person looking good.  What a waste.  But maybe those idiots deserve each other.

What will you have to put on your final balance sheet?
A tiny ass that you cant take with you,  a fancy house that you cant take with you.   So, what can you take with you?  The knowledge that you did not live authentic.

screw that, the ugly black guys have coke

HEY Blue Jacket...obnoxious to take transit?  means no drinking and driving and guess what, cuts down on green house gases...look at all the dead polar bears, clue in, cars mean nothing, the ability to be "green" is a sign of intellect and foresight.
So go through a wine bottle in your garbage, a can on the street and maybe an old appliance in a ditch you festering wart on a cur's hindquarters.

whoops i meant throw, not through..the shame

Look, asian guys dont get many white women because they are bigger and perhaps even stronger.

I hear women all the time talking about dates.  Everytime I hear one dating an asian guy, they are worried that they will crack his spine. The most common adjectives I hear is fragile and weak, but very smart  

you need to brush your teeth, spend £40 on some armani aftershave, and act like you don't care what people think.  Confidence and patience help the nice guys win in the end...

i would say just go with flow. life sucks but life has to go on why i dont know but i know i dont want shoot myself. at least not for now

there are other ways to enjoy life. am i self-deceiving? maybe

they told me to look at the bright side. ok the bright side is that if i dont get married, no children like me will be born so that there wont be guys like me living in pain among the next generation of human beings. its true. i often wanted to blame my parents for having given birth to me. at least no one will blame me like that in the future

hzchan...please tell me you're not serious.

elm, you want a boyfriend?

i think it's bull that girls are looking for guys with money. a lot of us don't care! we just want the guy to be able to look after himself, we don't wanna look after some damn broke ass.
be confident, caring and sweet. even if you are butt ugly... which few people are TRULY fugly... (i think most people have at least one good thing about their looks) you can still find a girl... unless you like the shallow type, then good luck!

yeah!!!!! life does suck..... im trapped inside this body that isnt me... i'm a completely different person than who i think i am.. i just wanna get along with people and make friends but hey.... noone wants to be friends with me!!!!!!
im sure i will grow out of it.. at least i hope so

Despite what the pop culture says. The truth is some people will never have a first date and will be eternally single. It`s just the laws of attraction. I`m not saying it will never happen. but just dont live you life for it. Focus on other aspects of yur life where you can find happiness. Make money, firends and travel. If she happens to come into your life, then congrats. If not, then its not so bad either.

FYI. I never one single date in my entire life, not one! That would make me a virgin I suppose. I guess you could say at 5`2 with a few blemishes in my face literally wrote me off in the dating arena.
The good news..I just turned 68 years old. I have made alot of money. Aquired property, started a business and I am doing well in life. I`m a happy guy, even though I have never been with a woman. So chin up. Hey this old "dog" is doing pretty well. so why can`t you???  

What a crazy thread. These people who have never dated can't be serious. Can they?

Jefferson

Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image!Posted - 11/19/2006 4:42:33 AM What a crazy thread. These people who have never dated can't be serious. Can they?

Hey Kiddo, if you dont have what a woman wants. Its pretty unlikely you`ll find anyone. Its the nature of the beast. Come over to our aisle a little, and see how we live?

Hey life isn` always fair, but you still have to live it.

Well dude i understand ur situation.I am pretty cool guy i like to party and should say i am the party and i came across lots of girls that liked me but just because i am funny i crack jokes. Having a girlfriend would be great and I never thought that white girls dont like me because i am Indian(from india) u know they just dont like me for me.I know its just crazy to see hot white chick with a black guy i am not rascist but its just frustrating.Just Live Your Life and I want a girlfriend i dont need her and theres a big difference between those.U cant just force urself to do things that u dont wanna do to get a girlfriend someimes things just happen.Good luck bro and just chill have a great time and enjoy ur life.

It there a lack of chicks in Vancouver?

Women like smart guys who engage in stimulating conversations. start reading books and become aware of this world around you. Get interested in philosophy. Join a political science class. You don`t have to be rich or have a PH d, but just showing that you are knowlegable and smart will always draw the women

Look in the mirror at yourself and analyze what you see. Change yourself ( shower, shave, hair cut/grow hair, lose weight, and dress better),, to see what will make yourself better. You see women out there and know what you would like them to change to make them more attractive.. People here can't help you,, you can only help yourself.

GET ONE OF THESE BIG MUSCULAR CHICKS MAN!!

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Get yourself a black chick!

Yea why dont we ever talk about black chicks??/ We never mention hot black chicks!
I guess the black guys are going after the hot white women. Many white and asian women are into hot black guys. The black chicks are left out. And there are some hot ones. Look at condoleesa rice. She is hot, but never married.

My advice is to go after the black chicks!

Maybe screw her friend...not her best friend though, that might be pushing it.

if a guy ever did that to me ill say get lost

Hmm,  Elm,

I dont think chicks hate you,  you just have some cooky ideas in your head.
If you want I could do a test date with you.   That is, not a real date, but I could help you figure out what you are not doing or should do over a coffee meet.  This would be only an experiment, and could see if any helpful ideas could be arrived at.
Up to you.

It's not a race thing.  It's about who you are and what you'll let affect you.  Go out and meet other women.  Show your true intentions early on so you don't fall into the "friend trap" again.  Do this every day for a few hours and within a week I guarentee you'll find someone.

Of course... you could always just go to a dating expert site and get help there.  A good one for just starting out is The How To Get A Girlfriend Guide, and there are others like Double Your Dating and Mystery Method if you want to develop more skills later on.  Check it out and tell me what you think.

Dave

i cant believe you are wondering why you are alone elm. IT'S BECAUSE THE GIRLS KNOW YOU HAVE A SMALL WANG

I say you look out of town. A bunch of buddies some Asian, some Caucasion, of mine just about had it in Vancouver and went left town and met great success! There was always something "wrong" with them for the local, picky Vancouver (especially) white chics. All great guys but there was always something "wrong" with each of them according to the typical Van chic- like (1) not rich enough (2) not educated enough (3) speaks with a heavy Chinese accent (4) too Brown (5) too short (6) not "outdoorsy" enough (7) too fat etc. (8) not fashionable - into Lululemon etc.  etc.

Most were depressed and single living in Vancouver. And let me tell you some of these guys were pretty good looking and some were rich, too, but apparently didn't meet the minimum requirements to get a date in Vancouver with a woman which is basically "MUST BE ALL OF THE ABOVE".  SO they left!!! And with great results!

One buddy went to a small town in Washington State and was immediately dating tons of really hot girls where in Vancouver he was completely ignored. He is getting married.

Another buddy went to the East Coast of Canada and again immediately met a very hot, very well educated, non materialistic local woman while in Vancouver he was dateless for seven years.

Another guy went to Australia and again was shocked how friendly the local lasses were. Even in the big city of Sydney, girls would smile and talk to him on the bus or on the street. Night and Day.

Another friend went to Eastern Europe and literally hordes of tall, hot blond girls fighting to meet him. He dated more in two months than in the last ten years in Vancouver.

Clear out of town gents! They are just too good for us!!!! No one can be "all of the above" but that's what girls here want! Enough! 

 

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