I want to hear from women who feel bad for being hairy.  I can guarantee that there will be men who read your comments who will get on and tell you that they love hairy women and that you are wrong for feeling bad.

Part of the reason why all these women think they have to be hairless is because us hair loving men have not been as loud as the men who like hairlessness.  I think that in this country we have gone too far with the hairless crap.  Why should a woman have to go someplace and lay on her stomach while someone waxes her whole body trying not to miss one hair.  How long will the wax treatment last?  She will pay more money and more money all her life to rid herself of something so beautiful.  Those people who make those hair removal products are getting richer and richer while women who have natural hair are feeling worse about themselves.

So come on women.  If you think that us men don't like your hair, you got it wrong.  I have many friends who love the hair.

You need to visit www.hairtostay.com   Cool website for men and women who are not hair-phobes and can appreciate that people just aren't popped out of a cookie cutter. 

I was in Surrey recently, and holy hairballs the ladies are hairy! I like my beaver big, black, and hairy. Lips and titties too.

I like em big, dark, and hairy. Like My Becki

I mentioned before that women pay big money for hair removal products.  The strange thing is that men are paying big money subscribing to websites like www.girlswithhairyarms.com and www.atkhairy.amkingdom.com.  Men are paying to see pictures of women with hairy arms and at the same time women are all over blogs and message boards posting trying to get help to get rid of the hair on her arms.  It's almost laughable.

This is an old post, but look at it.

FRUSTRATED

Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image! Posted - 4/3/2006 2:28:36 PM I am a girl with excessive hair. Hair all on my legs, stomache, arms, upper lip, sideface, chin I have shaved, waxed, electrolysis and done laser and nothing works! anyone in the same boat as me? I am so sick of shaving everyday and dealing with painful waxing and electorlysis. This is a night mare. I just want to enjoy life as a woman!

It's so well known that these women can start this shaving mess and find that whenever she stops, she may have made the "problem" worse.  Where she use to have nice soft hair and skin, she has now made those areas more rough to the touch and the hair grows back thicker and darker.

She says in the post, "I just want to enjoy life as a woman".  In my world, the solution would be to wear your natural body hair and enjoy life as who you are.

Point to Ponder:


Indian women, in large numbers, are really getting with this hair removal movement.  Indian women?  How could they?  They're all hair!  Look, in order for an Indian woman to be hairless, she would have to shave or wax the following:  her forehead, her uni brow, her sideburns, her upper lip, her cheeks, her chin, the back for her neck, her back, her shoulders, her chest, her arms, her stomach, the small of her back, her buttocks, her bikini area, her legs, her feet, and her toes.  Wow!  I may have even missed a spot.

For a man to get up in the morning and shave his face is nothing.  Can you imagine having to tend to all of the above areas every three days.  I mean all the pain that goes along with the shaving, the waxing and the laser treatments.

I was going to cut and paste the Indian women posting seeking help, but I'll just link you to a web page.  http://www.indiaparenting.com/faqs/beauty/unwanted_hair.shtml
On this page Indian women are even considering starting treatment for their 2year and 5year old girls.  Wouldn't it just be easier if they came together and demanded that the world accept them for who they are.  I am so glad that when I get up in the morning and look in the mirror that no one has convinced me to hate what I see.

If Indian women want to be hairless, they're in for a long ride.  I was so disappointed to read on the above site that so many Indian women have caved to such flawed standard of beauty.  My heart breaks.

(That may be because I love the Indian woman's silky body hair.)

I'm beating a dead horse here, but take a look at this post.

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Q: This is a prolem i have been dealing for about couple years that is very painful. I have been growing hair all over my body. I feel like a moster sometimes and I try to hide my body and face because I feel so ugly. Its on my back, chest, stomach, shoulders, face, cheeks and any other place you can imagine. I really dont know what to do, ive been reading your articles on waxing but i m scared it might grow back more course and fuller. Plus thats a big area and hard to reach area that i have to wax or shave every couple days. I dont know what to do and might help stop the growth of all that hair everywhere. Can you help me please? I dont have money to go to a doctor but i would like to feel like a beautiful women instead of feeling like a hairy man all the time. This would mean a lot if u can help or give me some advice. I dont know where to start. thank you

Lily (Goa, India)

This is just one of the posts on that Indian parenting site that I've got the link for in my previous post.

Will these women go crazy before they become hairless???

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Q: This is a prolem i have been dealing for about couple years that is very painful. I have been growing hair all over my body. I feel like a moster sometimes and I try to hide my body and face because I feel so ugly. Its on my back, chest, stomach, shoulders, face, cheeks and any other place you can imagine. I really dont know what to do, ive been reading your articles on waxing but i m scared it might grow back more course and fuller. Plus thats a big area and hard to reach area that i have to wax or shave every couple days. I dont know what to do and might help stop the growth of all that hair everywhere. Can you help me please? I dont have money to go to a doctor but i would like to feel like a beautiful women instead of feeling like a hairy man all the time. This would mean a lot if u can help or give me some advice. I dont know where to start. thank you

Lily (Goa, India)

I dunno... I don't think hairy women are very attractive argh

Oh dear, it’s so great to see some people being FOR hair. I am also constantly fighting the psychological pressure I get from the environment and society and many times jumped from one decision to another; wasting time, money, own nerves and going against own body or leaving it all out. Now I dare to go to swimming pool with unshaven legs, but not yet with hairy armpits. Oh it just would be so great if those hairy people found each other and altogether went with courage and with all their beauties to public places…

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I was meant to write I'm 18..

Hair growing in thicker after you shave is a myth.

I've also heard from multiple places that French women don't shave anywhere. I am wondering whether it is true.. Does anyone know??

Because here in Finland (a tiny, forgotten country and also in EUROPE(!)), I have not seen a single hairy woman. Some are born blond with minimal hair, but those who are not go with the flow. So everyone end up being the same.. "barbies"...

I have heard and observed from multiple faces other people's opinion towards the whole business and both females and males like females shaven. Now I've read in the latest magazine about smooth men. Oh God! Now they're becoming fashionable!! If I remember correctly already 19% of American women prefer smooth men. In England it's about the same, little lower.

Where is this world going???

Hair growing in thicker after you shave is NOT a myth for me. I have have oserved that from my own experience. One shaving time was enough to see the difference, I'm no way doing it again! And I guess I'm not less/more human than anyone else, so the biology must be the same with everyone.

dandelion:
Are you Finnish?
Perhaps a Swedish speaking Finn?
I'm Swedish. How come you've ended up in this forum?

being hairless is a natural evolutionary process?

discuss

Heheh... No Wasa. I'm not a Swedish speaking Finn nor a Finn at all. Just live here for some time..11 years now. Don't ask me what nationality I am, because I don't kinda have it..Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image!... OH well..Russian, Asian, Ukrainian having lived in Estonia, England and Sweden(!Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image!) In Sweden just several months though.. And how I ended up in this forum.. Isn't the world small?? Net doesn't seem to have geographical distances.

Are you concerned with hair issues too??

dandelion:
Oh, ok. I guess it was a long shot. =)

Honestly, I think north americans are obsessed with body hair. They have that whole "Please look like a prepubertal kid"-thing going for them. Needless to say, I find it disgusting.

has nothing to do with looking like a kid, to me at least.. smooth soft skin is sexy..

hairy skin....  NOT sexy

schmooozer:
Yes it has to do with looking like a kid. If you were turned on by women, not kids, you wouldn't find it sexy with babylike skin.

Wasa	Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image!Posted - 4/12/2007 11:39:03 AM schmooozer: Yes it has to do with looking like a kid. If you were turned on by women, not kids, you wouldn't find it sexy with babylike skin. Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image!

It's fine for you to have your opinion, but I have mine and body hair IS NOT sexy to me.
Why is that impossible for you to accept? Seriously?

schmoozer:
I'm totally accepting that you find prepubertal features sexy. Has never been an issue of not accepting that. Your concern is that you don't want to be connected to pedophile desires, but I guess you'll just have to accept that you share them.

Excuse mua for squeezing into here, but if most of the men are connected to pedophile desires (maybe not most, but their number is growing), children are dragged into this whole business?? I mean that, really, women were encouraged to shave until they have hair on the same places as children do.

I'm generally wondering, what role are children playing here? The psychology of people/males.. What is behind this? Why children's style and not some animal's or old persons'? Is it because people are afraid of death and want to run away from it with all their strength? They want to look younger, males want to see their partners younger so that "their genes would be in good hands"? I'm talking of instinctual (reproductive) point of view.

It is like fooling yourself with the help of unconsciuos mind.... The 'younger' female appearance leaves a strong subliminal mark in the male's mind, which as I pondered, leads to a bigger instinctual comfort when reproducing and otherwise. Children are usually healthier than older people and they have more life ahead than older people. So the males are comforted that their genes will be taken good care of. So obvious. Isn't it?? But the truth is, that those females are NOT younger and not healthier than those who don't shave! There we are, I got this for myself. Anyone having something to add or suggest/correct?? please.

I think males all have latent homosexual desires and want women who look like little boys; no hair, no hips etc.

Or they are pedos like schmooze.

dandelion:
Well, I'm in the criminology field, particularly sex offences, and what we can see is that we have created and are creating what we would call "pseudo pedophiles" by this prepubertal fashion. They're not technically pedophiles as they don't have that kind of mental disorder, but they are acting as pedophiles in the sense that they are aroused by girls looking as young as possible. You can see this everywhere; porn, media, advertisments - when advertising "barely legal teens" they are claiming they're "legal" so they won't get into trouble, yet dress them up to look like kids, of course removing body hair too. We are turned on by what we are socially constructed to be turned on by. If the society signals that kids are erotic and sexual - that's what people will be turned on by. This is also the reason children who are abused have more difficulties getting restitution - they are assumed to be "sexual". So, basically - we are creating child molesters and making them "normal". 

i agree that we are creating a lower age for sexual acceptence, 10 years ago 30 was sexy and a bush wasn't a problem if you know what i mean.


lets pray it doesnt get too sick out there

onelove:
Well, I of course think it's totally sick "already", but that comes from my view, work and experience. If you're working in my field, you see all the sh*t. People who don't and who don't even bother to become more aware, don't see it. They don't make the connection but tend to just go along with it, encouraging it obviously. And then they might go all crazy about some child molesting case, but never thinking they had any part in creating that.

Wasa

Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image!Posted - 4/12/2007 12:39:58 PM dandelion: Well, I'm in the criminology field, particularly sex offences, and what we can see is that we have created and are creating what we would call "pseudo pedophiles" by this prepubertal fashion. They're not technically pedophiles as they don't have that kind of mental disorder, but they are acting as pedophiles in the sense that they are aroused by girls looking as young as possible. You can see this everywhere; porn, media, advertisments - when advertising "barely legal teens" they are claiming they're "legal" so they won't get into trouble, yet dress them up to look like kids, of course removing body hair too. We are turned on by what we are socially constructed to be turned on by. If the society signals that kids are erotic and sexual - that's what people will be turned on by. This is also the reason children who are abused have more difficulties getting restitution - they are assumed to be "sexual". So, basically - we are creating child molesters and making them "normal".

you are waaaaaay off topic here, there is absolutely NO connection (NO meaning ZERO since you seem a bit dense Wasa) between age and body hair preference.......

go ahead and post some links that prove me wrong????????????

uh oh, schmooze is under the microscope