Stick to your own kind perhaps? I don't understand what the hell is wrong with you people

Stupid Indo-Canadians.... Even Indians who live in India are now much more liberal than the Indian expatriates who live in Canada. 

Why do you want him?

S

Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image! Posted - 4/28/2007 7:08:59 PM I am 23 (nearly 24) years old, white girl and I have been in a relationship with an Indian guy for 4 years. We live in different towns and I recently discovered that the reason he doesnt want me to visit his house is because his mum (and the rest of his family) dont know he has a white girlfriend! The differences in culture have never bothered me and to find out that the last 4 years he has lied to his family and me has upset and confused me. I dont know what to think! I dont want to split up as I love him more than anything but at the same time i know that I am not going to be accepted by his family. My family have no problem with him or the fact that he is Indian and most of my friends have met and like him.. I am very much in love with him and he says he has always loved me and still does but his mum and dad want him to marry an Indian girl, which he says he doesnt want. I dont know what to do and feel like my heart has been ripped in 2.. I am not particularly bothered about being mareried as all I want is him! Is it worth continuing the relationship?

Unless this boyfriend of yours stops giving a shit about what his family thinks about his private affairs, I can hardly see how this relationship is going to work.

If he loves you, he will fight for you. If you love him, fight with him.

I dont think it is fair people saying 'stick to your own'.. It shouldn't matter and anyone saying that has a very closed mind and must be racist in some way..

I will fight with him if he is willing to fight for me... Its not that easy to walk away when you care a lot for someone and have spent so much time together...

Anybody else got some useful advice? Or anybody experienced something similar? If so how did it work out for you?

If he really loves you, he will tell his parents. If they care about his happiness rather than what other family members think, they will accept you for who you are. Your skin color doesn't make you who you are, you heart and personality does.

S: I married an EI girl in college- she was 19, I was 34. ( I am white). We eloped and when her parents found out there was utter chaos. Within two weks, we received a phone call- bring the boy home and from that point everything fell into place. I felt like I was in a Guess EHos Coming To Dinner movie. I agreed to remarry the EI way and that was a grest experience. Point is- if you both love each other, go for it and be prepared to embrace a different culture and values. They will likely meet you half way.

Hello "S"

Stick with him and time will help you win. The longer you and him continue the relationship, the better the odds of him getting caught and finally dealing with it.

Dear 'S'

I think you should give this guy an ultimatium, you or his family. Unless his family can compromise, I dont see this wokring out. Sometimes cultural differences are bigger than they seem. I'm sure you really care about this guy, but sometimes its better to move on

ew, 19 & 34? u pedophile! u should be ashamed of yourself and your age.

S

Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image! Posted - 4/28/2007 7:08:59 PM I am 23 (nearly 24) years old, white girl and I have been in a relationship with an Indian guy for 4 years. We live in different towns and I recently discovered that the reason he doesnt want me to visit his house is because his mum (and the rest of his family) dont know he has a white girlfriend! The differences in culture have never bothered me and to find out that the last 4 years he has lied to his family and me has upset and confused me. I dont know what to think! I dont want to split up as I love him more than anything but at the same time i know that I am not going to be accepted by his family. My family have no problem with him or the fact that he is Indian and most of my friends have met and like him.. I am very much in love with him and he says he has always loved me and still does but his mum and dad want him to marry an Indian girl, which he says he doesnt want. I dont know what to do and feel like my heart has been ripped in 2.. I am not particularly bothered about being mareried as all I want is him! Is it worth continuing the relationship?

your not really a "white girl", I can tell just by your grammar, and this topic seems too come around conspicuously often, as with the "Persian girls/men are hot threads amongst others

Your spelling says brown guy.

White girl, you may be in trouble. I know matters of the heart take a huge effort and time to unwind, so I fully understand that you may choose to ignore my advise. Let me tell you what happened with my girlfriend's sister.

So she met a friend of mine. They enjoyed each others company and went all the way and discovered that they had feelings. At least, she was sure that she had feelings. Then the guy started coming up with excuses like his parents were creating problems. She did consider changing herself a lot. Then he came up with an excuse that he wanted time to work out his career. She still stayed with him. For 3 more years. Waiting. Expecting. Then she found out on a social website that he was already dating 2 other girls just like her.

The guy might not have willingly broken her heart. But he did not have at the same time, a right to waste precious years of her life. Just make sure you keep your communication open and that you know what you want out of the relationship. That is true whether you are dating an indian, an american or an alien, even.

Just out of curiosity: have you laid with him yet? If yes, how often? Sexual satisfaction can get things moving along when everything else fails...................

yes, if your a gori then his parents definitely wont like you, unless you are willing to convert to sikhism

When will these indian guys grow some phucking balls and stand up to their parents???

Indians people worhip white people.  If a white person walks into their house, they roll out the red carpet and goes on their knees. 

Stop talking shit. 

S

Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image! Posted - 4/28/2007 7:08:59 PM I am 23 (nearly 24) years old, white girl and I have been in a relationship with an Indian guy for 4 years. We live in different towns and I recently discovered that the reason he doesnt want me to visit his house is because his mum (and the rest of his family) dont know he has a white girlfriend! The differences in culture have never bothered me and to find out that the last 4 years he has lied to his family and me has upset and confused me. I dont know what to think! I dont want to split up as I love him more than anything but at the same time i know that I am not going to be accepted by his family. My family have no problem with him or the fact that he is Indian and most of my friends have met and like him.. I am very much in love with him and he says he has always loved me and still does but his mum and dad want him to marry an Indian girl, which he says he doesnt want. I dont know what to do and feel like my heart has been ripped in 2.. I am not particularly bothered about being mareried as all I want is him! Is it worth continuing the relationship?

Your obviously an indian trolss talking shit. 

Why do Indians guys craetes dumb threads like this and "sweedish girls Indians guys" ?

How often do you see Indian with a white girl?

Stop hyping yourself up like white girls actually date you guys.

Even EI girls don't want to date you guys.

Girl....take my advice. Dump him now. EI guys have absolutely no intention of "ever" marrying you. They are scum. They use white women for sex because EI women stay virgins for them when they are ready to marry. They have their fun with women like you and when they feel ready to marry they take an EI woman. EI are the biggest racists around and they hate white people. Don't just walk away from this guy...but run and keep running and find any other guy but not an EI.

I am sure she be long gone...that was in April, eh

dumb

dear s,

I too found myself in a similar position, and i believe every family is different. If his family feels very strongly about this matter, and if you love this man, perhaps it would be better to love and let go.. after all, do you really want to spend the rest of your life trying to live up to his parents expectations and fighting to love someone? Plus he will be torn by letting his parents down.. Indian families are very close and children are tought to respect, listen and follow their elders. How much are you willing to sacrifice without feeling resentment is the real question you need to ask yourself

There are plenty of indians married to whites. Whats the big deal here ? I am married to one. Never had any issues

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hi, im a little white/chinese girl and im recently being chased by an asian man with glasses who works for a daycamp. i know he loves me but i dont know whether or not my parents will accept him. please help

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^^^ Her facial is too chubby and undefined.

Are you guys still together? I just started a relationship with a "westernized' punjabi guy. I'm not sure where it's going to go but I was told that most parents want their Indian children to marry to another Indian.

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