I want to have an affair
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MargeSimpson
post Nov 22 2007, 03:49 AM
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My husband just doesn't satisfy me anymore. I love him to death and wouldn't dream of leaving him, yet I have my needs. Two of my girlfriends are having affairs so I could ask them I know. But I've always been the religious, never leave my husband, committed wife. Now I am having serious thoughts about cheating on my husband.

What should I do and will the wisdom of total strangers help me? I must be crazy.


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sicko
post Nov 22 2007, 03:53 AM
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Before you could get any real help, you must demonstrate that you are not some lonely man with a pathetic fantasy. 

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Me
post Nov 22 2007, 03:55 AM
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If you are that unhappy divorce your husband and then start a new relationship.

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sicko
post Nov 22 2007, 04:07 AM
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so the question is do real house wives think about other men?  
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girl
post Nov 22 2007, 04:08 AM
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what about lisa and bart ? 
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homer
post Nov 22 2007, 04:10 AM
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but but........

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Slappy
post Nov 22 2007, 04:19 AM
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how about a nice safe mutual discussion about the pros and cons...

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FRY
post Nov 22 2007, 04:20 AM
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http://www.digiseller.net/info.php?idd=405548
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For Marge
post Nov 22 2007, 04:22 AM
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Affairs can make a marriage stronger
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Dudley Do-right
post Nov 22 2007, 04:24 AM
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For actual rules for having a affair go to afair tips web site. Some good adice there.
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Me
post Nov 22 2007, 04:26 AM
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r Marge Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image!Posted - 11/22/2007 12:22:48 PM
Affairs can make a marriage stronger
Or destroy it completely,
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MarriedGuy
post Nov 22 2007, 04:36 AM
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I suspect my wife has done this on one occasion and because she didn't have any male friends she had a "F*ck" with some guy she met online.
Anyway, till this day and that was 3 years ago, she has not admitted it but all the signs point to that happening.  She even got a dose of scabbies that transferred to me.

Ever since then, I have no trust in her at all.  When she is away from home I am always thinking where she is or what she is doing.  I always wonder who she is talking to online through emails and on the telephone. The trust is gone from my point of view and also since that time, our sex life has gone down the hill and although we "do it", its always the same and not at all anything like it used to be.

If you are a real wife and are considering this, forget it or leave your husband.
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watcher
post Nov 22 2007, 04:38 AM
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OKAY MARGE!
Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image!
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Cable
post Nov 22 2007, 04:39 AM
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http://www.ashleymadison.com/
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BC Marie
post Nov 22 2007, 04:41 AM
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Stay in the marriage but find someone else to satisfy your sexual needs.

If there arent' any children then get a divorce.
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truth is
post Nov 22 2007, 04:44 AM
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too late!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q345mRhrrJU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q345mRhrrJU

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Me
post Nov 22 2007, 04:45 AM
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BC Marie Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image!Posted - 11/22/2007 12:41:56 PM
Stay in the marriage but find someone else to satisfy your sexual needs.
CRAP !  She/ they need to work at their marriage and affair fixes NADA.
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Committed
post Nov 22 2007, 05:12 AM
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    What about an open marriage? Still together forever, still raising children together, still a family.

Only difference is some nights, instead of going out with the girls, she goes out with a guy, gets what she needs then returns home and continues being a loving wife.

Sound like the lesser of the two evils. Why break up a happy home when you both can have both???

I'd consider it if my wife told me I wasn't satisfying her anymore. As long as she didn't tell me stories about how good her lover was, and as long as she used a condom I wouldn't be too pissed. I just wouldn't want the family to find out and I wouldn't want her to leave me either.
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been there
post Nov 22 2007, 05:30 AM
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Go to a male escort service. You can have the sex without all the headaches of a relationship.
The guys are good looking, have good bodies, and treat you well for the night or weekend.
But you do need money. $1000 per night for a quality male escort, who'll take you to the theatre or out dancing plus a long romantic sexually satisfying sex session
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no need
post Nov 22 2007, 05:32 AM
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to get a male escort

just be a teacher at a high school or tutor at university
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been there
post Nov 22 2007, 05:33 AM
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You need to have a sexually satisfying marriage otherwise the tenion will make you so miserable you're liable to do something crazy. 
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No way
post Nov 22 2007, 05:34 AM
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Escorts are a total waste of money! All you have to do is put a ad up on Ashley Madison or Lavalife or even craigslist and hundreds of men will try and fill your (in)box.

Paying $1000 for a man-whore? Yeah right. That buys me 10 trips to the spa!
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Girl
post Nov 22 2007, 05:37 AM
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Hey, Im not married,,, but have been in a long term for goin on 5 yrs. I think you should go out for dinner with him someplace quite away from the kids if you have any...and explain to him how you feel. The brutal honest truth. He might be willing to go to councelling with you, or try meds....or just turn off the tube once n a while and pay you some attention. If you love him, you owe it  to him AND your marriage to try that. If there are still no improvements, then it might be time to cancel your contract to the Wive's Club. At least it wont come as  a total heart breaking shock to him that way.

Good luck.
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Me
post Nov 22 2007, 05:38 AM
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It amazes me what bs you people come up with to cheat on your partners.
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Gdude
post Nov 22 2007, 05:46 AM
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Most of your girlfriends have affair, and you are going to have one?? Most of your friend eat dirt, you are going to eat as well??

Remember Romans 12:2 in the bible, St. John taught us: Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

If you are religious, you should know this....
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Moe Sizlack
post Nov 22 2007, 05:50 AM
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Ah.....Marge my ears are burning...........

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Oh god
post Nov 22 2007, 05:53 AM
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Let's not bring religion into this. Sexuality is all about human nature, not some god crap.

Don't you people watch the discovery channel? The Nature of Things?

Marriage and life-long partners goes against our natural instincts!
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girl
post Nov 22 2007, 05:54 AM
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just get a male prosititude then

jk

people are so crazy these days.
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solution
post Nov 22 2007, 06:00 AM
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put an ad on Plenty of Fish.

it's easy to meet guys from there for casual sex and you don't have to pay, they pay for dinner and you get free sex.
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madam mu saur
post Nov 22 2007, 06:15 AM
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TOY TOy Toy...
safe and cheap and reliable.
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