I've spent almost a quarter of my income (before tax) on them within the last year, and I fear it's only going to get worse. I've tried to limit myself, but the withdrawals get so bad I feel like I have no choice, and I cave. I'm afraid there's just nothing quite as satisfying as pounding some hot little spinner into oblivion, and then maybe kissing and cuddling afterward, while having to invest so little time and effort into it. I don't know what I'd do without this sort of physical contact. Probably go insane. The hobby really is like a drug too. The more I participate in it, the more I want.

I'm at my wit's end. So far I've yet to find anything that can replace having sex with whores, but I'd hate to imagine what would happen if I started spending even more on them. What should I do? And yes, I'm completely for real.

Find religion, a girlfriend, or just startmasturbating like 4 times a day. It'll kill the urge.

seek help in the form of friends and God. if you're busy you'll likely not find the time to do this. Plus think of whose around you that may lead you to these actions...maybe it's a friend or colleague, once you find this out distance yourself from them.

...do u have venereal disease? HIV-positive? AIDS? Herpes? I knew of some guys who died using prostitutes. I knew someone who died of AIDS. It wasn't pleasant.

You could be charged criminally for buying sex from a whore. A criminal record could have some not so good effects on your life.

I am still on the fence as to whether masturbating is fun. I've been doing this for more than 5 years. But last week I saw this movie called The Basketball Diaries starring leonoardo dicaprio and mark walhberg. he started doing drugs and "at first it was a saturday thing, then it became a saturday and tuesday thing, then... ... then he was hooked." it's funny that a lot of street people are a bunch of "basketball all-stars". so i started asking, does masturbating hurt anyone? no it doesn't. is it fun? yes it is. but drugs are fun? and like drugs masturbating hurts your opportunities in life. there's more you can do with your life. to make good use of an hour in the day. or two hours. time and opportunity only has so much. so i am starting to realize there's more important things to do. if you have a physical need that gives you ecstasy, you're going to keep needing it. rather make something of your life.

If you'd only knew , how you disgust 'them' .

You could be charged criminally for buying sex from a whore. A criminal record could have some not so good effects on your life.

no it is not. any conversation goes on for buying sex as long as it stays in the room and both adults are okay with it. it is not criminal record

I don't condemn OP if he seeks sex on a regular basis with prostitutes. A man's gotta do whatta man's gotta do, I guess. But stripping away the moral issue of whether it's right or wrong, look at it from a perspective of health. And if he does it all the time with sex workers, he puts himself and any of his future partners at risk. HIV's a serious thing right now. No cure yet. Just about every prostitute has herpes. So if he has sex with them during their outbreak, he could well get it too. Herpes is very contagious. I went down to the market one day and saw some guy with huge pustules around his lips. Then I saw him talking with one of his 'Lady Friends'. Like yeesh! Would ya wanna be served by a guy like that? Puts his hands all over the food. Spreads the disease. actually, anybody who has an outbreak like that should automatically be quarantined by a public health official, so they don't spread it to anyone else.

Hey ?. How exactly do you know that just about every prostitute has herpes? Have you been sampling? Attention: REGISTER / LOGIN to view the image!

You are confusing Canada with USA. Prostitution is not illegal in Canada. There are laws in Canada surrounding prostitution, but buying sex is not a criminal act in the FREE country of Canada.

Soliciting prostitution in a public area is illegal. Look at all 'em brothels they've been closing down in richmond. If they were legal how could they do it?

Keyword = "Solicitation in public". The act of buying sex is not illegal. Bawdy houses are also illegal, however places like Swedish Touch pay the city of Vancouver $10 K per year to be left alone. The City of Richmond is not quite so accommodating - often because these places employ illegals from Asia, Russia and Ukraine.

The safest and most legal way to engage is for the girl to come to your home or hotel. If she has a city license (if offered in that city) and pays taxes, nothing illegal has taken place.

This post has been edited by macchiavelli: Nov 30 2008, 11:09 AM

at this stage the thought of a criminal record is probably not first and foremost on his mind, I wonder if he's ever thought of... like you kno, a GF, because he mentions "cuddling" and I'm not an expert but I think "cuddling" with whores cost extra?

Ones that offer more intimate sessions are called GFE providers or "Girlfriend Experience." You often pay a premium for this service.

Experienced are you?

It's been my fulltime business promoting this industry online for many years. MSNBC had a documentary out a couple of weeks ago on this. Some of my clients and websites were featured.

This post has been edited by macchiavelli: Nov 30 2008, 11:55 AM

well I mean what ever floats a guy's boat, but if this is such a desirable, expensive, proposition the "GFE", wouldn't it be better, (for a person in need of a GFE), to make more of an effort with actual relationships?

Not everyone has time for an actual relationship. The men are usually successful their careers, very busy, often married and seek an intimate escape from every day reality.

...Why, that's News ta me, Goat Boy. You must be looking out for that sort of thing. Any other breaking news from the Brothel Front?

It was a licensing issue , also with human trafficing etc.

Maybe you should seek professional help.

In legal terms , yes.

However, I doubt those 'girls' carry current clean health certificates in their purse , if any at all . Ditto for the men.

Prostitution has always been around and is not to eradicate , heck , it even flourished in Nazi death camps.

But I think this activity warrants some better oversight. Right now it is a tolerated ad hominem affair : " if it

ain't broken , don't fix it. "

That's a ten-four. ("Probably go insane. The hobby really is like a drug too. The more I participate in it, the more I want.")

This topic has come up many many times on DV.

go to therapy

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